In these days of political-social confusion, where man-hating feminism has infiltrated almost every sphere, from the judiciary and legislatures and social services, where men generally lose, from child custody to banning visits to see them, even leaving them on the street during separations or divorces and financially bankrupt.
I have witnessed how certain feminist political ideologies are guilty of the loss of men’s rights, because they are men.
I am referring to situations where men are unjustly harassed and abused by some insensitive women who take advantage, stripping them and taking them away from their children without being able to enjoy them and accompany them on important dates – just as they grow up without their father. Of course, I exclude those abusive men who mistreat women or their own children and are irresponsible.
The absence of a father in many families has undoubtedly contributed to the neglect of these children in many cases.
We know that children who grow up with absent parents can suffer lasting damage. They are more likely to end up in poverty or drop out of school, become addicted to drugs, have a child out of wedlock, or end up in prison.
Children who lag behind score lower on cognitive tests and academic tests, and are also less likely to attend college. In particular, the absence of the mother appears to have persistent negative effects on children’s development.
It is important that the father is present, and is given the opportunity to exercise paternity and develop love for his children.
A committed and affectionate father provides better self-esteem, more social skills, supports better school performance, and provides psychological well-being for boys and girls.
This month of June is Father’s Day. It is a day that should be commemorated in the name of the children, and remember that it is not easy for those who grow up without the figure of a man. It is the equivalent of the positive and negative energy that governs the field of electricity. Together they form two different perspectives, which are the force that makes children develop, grow by developing their own personality to achieve their own goals. The union of two parents promotes the healthy development of their children so that they can later form their own family. This is the heritage that sustains the pillars of a society.
Due to the absence of the father in the family, studies say, it is that today’s young people are taking paths of violence and drugs, as a refuge from the lack of love that they lack at home.
It is important to remember that the father must be motivated so that he does not forget his role and manages to develop a strong connection with his children from childhood to adolescence.
My memory goes to my father who is in Heaven.
El Reportero joins in this celebration, Happy Father’s Day.
